Keeping a happy marriage can require a lot of work if you approach it with the wrong attitude which is that of believing it is hard and takes sacrifice. The truth is it can be easy! Though you do need to do a number of small things right a lot of times but this can become habitual just as happiness can become a habit too!
A shift in attitude is the first thing you must master to keep a happy marriage because so many people believe that happiness stems from either money or the efforts of their partner when the truth is happiness is a CHOICE. We each choose to be happy and while the pressures of life can make that difficult we can always choose to approach each challenge with a positive attitude of a negative one ... which do you think breeds happiness in a marriage?
Another problem is many people think that if their partner is not trying just as hard as you then things are bad and a spiral of resentment and anger can develop destroying your marital bliss. While it can be frustrating when your spouse does not seem to put the same effort into your relationship as you do the tendency to become argumentative and petty as some sort of revenge act is the last thing you want to do because this makes you miserable and your wife of husband too.
Instead you must choose to be happy, you must choose to be positive and apply some simple rules to your relationship that if you follow you will get guaranteed reciprocation from your partner which becomes synergizes and builds happiness at an exponential rate!
So if you are ready to take a shift in attitude and learn the skills on keeping a happy marriage then click below to learn how to either tweak a good marriage into a great one or to turn a floundering one around and set it back on course for marital bliss.
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